I-WhatsApp yaqala njengenethiwekhi yoluntu apho sinxibelelana ngoko nangoko kwiselfowuni yethu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abafowunelwa bethu babekude okanye akunjalo, kwasekuqaleni siye sakwazi ukubhalela abantu abakwamanye amazwe okanye amazwekazi; ummangaliso wokwenyani owaguqula indlela esinxibelelana ngayo. Kodwa, ngoku ingaphezulu koko, abanye bade bayisebenzisele ukwabelana ngokungathanga ngqo ngeemeko zabo ze-WhatsApp.
Ukuba ufuna ukuthumela umyalezo ongathanga ngqo kwenye yezimo zakho ze-WhatsApp, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba enze into ebuhlungu kuwe okanye kuba ufuna ukwenza abafowunelwa bakho babonakalise; ke ukwindawo eyiyo. Siza kukuxelela ezinye iingcebiso igqibelele ukuba ungayipapasha kumazwe akho.
Amabinzana angathanga ngqo kubantu abangathembekanga
Xa iqabane lakho lingathembekanga, mhlawumbi ufuna ukulibuza imibuzo ethile ngoko kwenzekileyo. Noko ke, usenokuba nexhala lokuba iya kuqhubeka njani incoko. Ungaziva unomsindo, ukhathazekile okanye ungcatshiwe kwaye ufuna ukuyiveza ngqo kwiqabane lakhoa. Kodwa, mhlawumbi eminye imiyalezo engathanga ngqo kwisimo sakho se-WhatsApp iya kuba luncedo kakhulu.
Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ayingomagama owasebenzisayo kuphela adlulisela iimvakalelo zakhokodwa nendlela ozithetha ngayo. Nanga amabinzana angathanga ngqo onokuwasebenzisa ukuba uzifumana ulahlekelwe ngamagama:
- "Ndivakalelwa kukuba andinakukuthemba."
- "Andifuni ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi nomntu ongandihloniphi ngokwaneleyo ukuba athembeke kum."
- "Undiphoxile xa undiqhatha, kodwa ndiyazi akuzuba lula ukuba undilibale."
- "Andifuni ukuba kubudlelwane nomntu ongazimiselanga kum."
- "Ndifuna ixesha lokuba ndedwa lokucinga izinto kwaye ndiphilise ngokweemvakalelo ngaphambi kokuba ndizibophelele emntwini ngoku."
Amabinzana angathanga ngqo okucamngca
Bhala malunga amava yenye indlela edumileyo yokucamngca ngeziganeko bobomi. Ezi ntlobo zamabinzana zikholisa ukuvela kumava obuqu, kodwa zinokubandakanya amabali asuka kwabanye abantu abathe badlula kumava afanayo. Ke ngoko, zifanelekile kwiindawo zakho ezingathanga ngqo kwi-WhatsApp.
- "Abantu bahlala behanahanisa kwaye bazingca."
- "Kunzima ukunxibelelana nabanye."
- "Sonke sahlukile kwaye sineembono zethu, iinkolelo kunye nemilinganiselo yethu."
- "Ndingafunda kumava am kwaye ndiphucule."
- "Kufuneka ndibe nomonde ngakumbi kwabanye kunye nam."
- "Kufuneka ndilumke ngakumbi kwixesha elizayo ukuze le meko ingaphindi yenzeke kwixesha elizayo."
- "Ndiza kuzama ngakumbi kwixesha elizayo ukwenza ngcono kunangaphambili ukuze ndiphumelele kule nto ndiyenzayo ngoku."
- “Xa ndiphinda ndijamelene nemeko efanayo, ndiza kuyisingatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunangaphambili ngenxa yento eyenzeke kum ngeli xesha.”
Amabinzana ahlekisayo kuWhatsApp
El impoxo ihlala ikhona kwiingcebisoKe ngoko, sinemizekelo yala mabinzana onokuthi uwasebenzise kumazwe akho.
- "Asikuko ukuba ndithanda isithukuthezi, kukuba ndiyoyika ukuhlala nomntu ongandixabisanga."
- "Abona bantu banganyamezelekiyo ngabo banokuthetha izinto ezinganyamezelekiyo ngaphandle kokuhlazeka okuncinci."
- "Abantu abanamali, banesimo sengqondo esibi."
- "Yima ndide ndikubone esitratweni, ke, uya kubona ukuba kuphuma ntoni..."
- "Ndithenge iiglasi ezintsha, ngoku ndingaphezulu komndilili kubukrelekrele."
- "Ndidiniwe kufuneka ndilale. Kodwa bendingafuni nokuvuka ngomso.
- "Andinangxaki nawe, kodwa ndiyakwazi ukuba ungubani kwaye andikhathali."
- Ndiyakwazi ukusombulula iingxaki. Ukuba unengxaki, nam ndinayo. Ungazifumana zombini."
- "Wonke umntu unohlobo oluthile lokugula ngengqondo: abanye abakayazi nje!"
Amabinzana aneengcebiso zothando
Amabinzana e- Iingcebiso zothando ziyindlela entle ukwazisa iqabane lakho kanye into ofuna ukumxelela yona ngokungathanga ngqo.
- Andizange ndonwabe ngolu hlobo.
- "Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngumntu ongcono."
- Andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni ukuze ndikufanele, kodwa ndiyavuya kuba ndiyenzile.
- "Ndikuthanda ngaphezu kokutya endikuthandayo."
- "Ubomi bufutshane, ngoko masichithe ixesha elininzi kangangoko sinakho kunye."
- "Ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo owakha wandehlela."
- Ndikuthanda ngaphezu kokuba ndithanda nabani na okanye nantoni na.
- "Ndikuthanda kakhulu kangangokuba intliziyo yam ibuhlungu."
- "Ndifuna ukuchitha ubomi bam bonke ndithanda wena kuphela, kwaye akukho mntu wumbi."
- "Ukuba bekufuneka ndiphile ubomi bam kwakhona, ndiya kuhlala ndikhetha wena."
- "Ulukhanyiso ekupheleni kwetonela yam, isizathu sam sokuphila kunye nokuphefumla, kunye nehlabathi lam lonke, lonke lijikelezwe kumntu omnye omhle."
Amabinzana ka-WhatsApp angathanga ngqo
Ukuba awufuni "ukuhamba ngaphezulu" kunye ne iingcebiso kwaye ufuna ukusebenzisa amabinzana angaqini kakhulu. Ewe, nalu uluhlu lwamabinzana angathanga ngqo, kodwa onokuwasebenzisa ukuthumela umyalezo "ofihliweyo" kubafowunelwa bakho. Ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke, ukuba unomdla kwezinye iintlobo zamabinzana, jonga iposi yethu Iimpawu ze-whatsapp.
- "Lowo ubuza umbuzo uqala ukukhangela impendulo, ngoko kungcono ukubuza into ongayaziyo."
- "Ukuba awukwazi ukufunda ukuhlala noloyiko, uloyiko luya kukubulala."
- "Ubomi buyamangalisa kwaye ukufa kuyamangalisa kakhulu."
- "Akukho nto inzima ebomini, ngaphandle kwabantu abakujikelezile kunye nawe."
- "Akukho sizathu sokuba awukwazi ukonwaba, ngaphandle kokuba awufuni ukuba kwaye ungazami kangangoko unako."
- "Ubomi bufutshane, kodwa bunokuba bufutshane kakhulu ukuba uzama ukwenza umntu aqonde ukuba akalunganga nokuba ungubani okanye uziva njani ngalo mzuzu."
- "Andikufuni kuba andikudingi."
- "Xa usemathandweni awuva buhlungu, ubomi buba ngcono kwaye yonke into eyenzekayo iyavakala."
- "Uthando luhlala ngomphefumlo omnye kwaye luvakalelwa ngeentliziyo ezimbini."
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku uluhlu lwethu lwamabinzana anamacebiso. Khumbula ukuba ungabi "khohlakele" kakhulu ngala mabinzana, njengoko unokulimaza iimvakalelo zabanye abantu. KUNYEKungcono ukuba ubonakalise kwaye uzame ukoyisa inxeba eliye labangelwa kuwe. Siyathemba ukuba la mabinzana aluncedo kwaye enze bonke abafowunelwa bakho be-WhatsApp abazaziyo iimeko zakho bacinge kakhulu.